{"id":224,"date":"2018-04-24T16:51:24","date_gmt":"2018-04-24T16:51:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/?post_type=project&#038;p=224"},"modified":"2018-04-24T17:13:04","modified_gmt":"2018-04-24T17:13:04","slug":"march-18th-time-to-give-up","status":"publish","type":"project","link":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/project\/march-18th-time-to-give-up\/","title":{"rendered":"March 18th &#8211; Time to Give Up?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; parallax=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.101&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"420\" height=\"236\" class=\"wp-image-226 alignnone size-large\" alt=\"\" src=\"..\/..\/..\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/chair-1024x576.jpg\" srcset=\"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/chair-1024x576.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/chair-300x169.jpg 300w, http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/chair-768x432.jpg 768w, http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/chair-1080x607.jpg 1080w, http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/chair.jpg 1250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 420px) 100vw, 420px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It is so easy to believe that our efforts are not doing anything.<\/p>\n<p>We get frustrated; we get tired or worn down.<\/p>\n<p>We wonder how long we can keep going?<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re really not seeing anything change. Is it time to give up?<\/p>\n<p>From my experience, when you reach this point it is time to do something but giving up is not it.<\/p>\n<p>I think it is time to ask ourselves some simple questions,<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Who would I be if I did&#8217;t do this work?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What would my inmost feelings be if I walked away?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Would I be leaving a part of me on the table?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And in the quiet, truthful moment of answering those questions we often realize that we really have nothing to lose by continuing and everything to gain.<\/p>\n<p>We are not the judge if our work is doing any good or having any effect on someone else.<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t have omnipotent vision to see who it might be affecting.<\/p>\n<p>All we have is the inner knowledge that this is what we need to express and do.<\/p>\n<p>And in moving forward I&#8217;ve seen amazing, if not miraculous things happen.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 It is so easy to believe that our efforts are not doing anything. We get frustrated; we get tired or worn down. We wonder how long we can keep going? We&#8217;re really not seeing anything change. Is it time to give up? From my experience, when you reach this point it is time to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":226,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<img class=\"alignnone wp-image-226\" src=\"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/chair-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"628\" height=\"353\" \/>\r\n\r\nIt is so easy to believe that our efforts are not doing anything.\r\n\r\nWe get frustrated; we get tired or worn down.\r\n\r\nWe wonder how long we can keep going?\r\n\r\nWe're really not seeing anything change. 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