{"id":2124,"date":"2023-06-07T16:25:50","date_gmt":"2023-06-07T16:25:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/?post_type=project&#038;p=2124"},"modified":"2023-06-07T16:34:41","modified_gmt":"2023-06-07T16:34:41","slug":"the-slippery-cultural-slope-june-2nd","status":"publish","type":"project","link":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/project\/the-slippery-cultural-slope-june-2nd\/","title":{"rendered":"The slippery cultural slope &#8211; June 2nd"},"content":{"rendered":"[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;section&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row admin_label=&#8221;row&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/2-pics.jpg&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; title_text=&#8221;2 pics&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|770px||||&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Text&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;]\n<p>I often say &#8211;<strong><em>&nbsp;the culture&nbsp;in our stores is what we allow.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What we allow&nbsp;for one will repeat for others and the accumulation is our culture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being an effective manager means&nbsp;we&#8217;re&nbsp;focusing&nbsp;on what&#8217;s good for the organization&nbsp;and the team, whereas being an effective&nbsp;employee means aligning with managerial directives to do what&#8217;s good for the particular job.&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For this formula to work, we all, managers and staff alike, have to set aside our&nbsp;individualized&nbsp;preferences, within reason, and cast our lot with moving the organization forward successfully together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This balance&nbsp;we all need to strike between having our self-preferences (having things our way) and subordinating and being responsive to the needs of the organizations (having things the organization&#8217;s way) can be a struggle and tussle at times &#8211; a bit of a trade-off so to speak &#8211;&nbsp;yet&nbsp;the rewards to all when an organization is running&nbsp;and functioning well, in my opinion, is well worth this trade-off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the balance&nbsp;between&nbsp;self-subordinating&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>self-preferentializing<\/em>&nbsp;gets&nbsp;out of whack, the culture&nbsp;can drift,&nbsp;slide, and decline in strength and unity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course we all want some consideration to make our jobs work for our&nbsp;personal&nbsp;preferences,&nbsp;that&#8217;s natural,&nbsp;and&nbsp;within bounds&nbsp;can usually work out; however, what we want to be on the lookout&nbsp;for is when&nbsp;personal&nbsp;preferences&nbsp;have an impact on things going well&nbsp;for the co-op and team &#8212;&nbsp;<em>&#8220;I am going to see if I can do it&nbsp;this way because it works better for me.&nbsp;It is no big&nbsp;deal; it won&#8217;t affect things that&nbsp;much.\u201d<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then if this is not checked,&nbsp;<em>self-preferentializin<\/em>g can grow into&nbsp;<em><u>self-optionalizing<\/u><\/em>. &#8212;&nbsp;<em>&#8220;I know&nbsp;I was supposed to do this, but I didn&#8217;t want to do it today.&#8221; &nbsp;<\/em>Now the impacts to the store are growing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally, this dynamic&nbsp;can&nbsp;grow and&nbsp;end up in&nbsp;<em><u>self-deputizing<\/u><\/em>&nbsp;\u2013 \u201c<em>Even if I have been told what to do,&nbsp;I&#8217;m&nbsp;going to do&nbsp;what works for me &#8211; that&#8217;s why I work at a co-op and put up with all the craziness around here.\u201d&nbsp;<\/em>The Co-op is now splintering, and impacts can be severe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And this spreads to others and accumulates&nbsp;in our cultures.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of our biggest jobs as managers is to hold this dynamic in check, keep a sharp eye on this balance, and remember that much of the culture is built on what we allow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We all need things to go our way at times &#8211;&nbsp;that&#8217;s a&nbsp;given. 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