{"id":2088,"date":"2023-02-09T16:13:21","date_gmt":"2023-02-09T16:13:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/?post_type=project&#038;p=2088"},"modified":"2023-02-09T16:13:23","modified_gmt":"2023-02-09T16:13:23","slug":"a-small-reflective-shift-dec-1","status":"publish","type":"project","link":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/project\/a-small-reflective-shift-dec-1\/","title":{"rendered":"A small reflective shift &#8211; Dec 1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; width=&#8221;86.5%&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Drawing1.jpg&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.0&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; title_text=&#8221;Drawing1&#8243; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;47%&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;]<!-- divi:paragraph -->\n<p>So often I rush into my day.<\/p>\n<!-- \/divi:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- divi:paragraph -->\n<p><em>&#8220;What do I have to do today? 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