{"id":1365,"date":"2020-03-08T18:31:46","date_gmt":"2020-03-08T18:31:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/?post_type=project&#038;p=1365"},"modified":"2020-03-08T18:31:46","modified_gmt":"2020-03-08T18:31:46","slug":"who-is-making-the-decision-march-8th","status":"publish","type":"project","link":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/project\/who-is-making-the-decision-march-8th\/","title":{"rendered":"Who is making the decision? &#8211;  March 8th"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; parallax=&#8221;off&#8221; parallax_method=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Drawing1.jpg&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.101&#8243; max_width=&#8221;30%&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;3.0.47&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;]I&#8217;m sure we&#8217;ve all been a player in the &#8220;decision maker hot potato game&#8221;.<br \/>\nThe basic &#8220;game&#8221; is this: no-one really knows who the final decision maker is or no one really wants to be the final decision maker.<br \/>\nWhatever the reason, an issue, along with the responsibility of a decision, ends up deferred to the &#8220;team&#8221; or passed around like a hot potato.<br \/>\nIt is an easy &#8220;game&#8221; to fall into because no one has to do anything specifically as long as we remain uncertain and no one decides anything.<br \/>\nThis &#8220;game&#8221; can carry on for quite a while.<br \/>\nAnd this &#8220;game&#8221; has a way of masquerading as though we are being thoughtful and taking care of business.<br \/>\nWhen actually the game is really over processing an issue, having lots of confusing meetings, and blurring everything.<br \/>\nBelow are some things that can help:<br \/>\n1. State clearly the issue to be decided. (Don&#8217;t skip this step. Often we don&#8217;t concisely know what the issue is.)<br \/>\n2. Define or clarify who the decision maker is. (Who&#8217;s the final word? Who is the person that all advisories and opinions are directed to?)<br \/>\n3. What happens with decisions that are made?<br \/>\nFor effectiveness, this last step is vital.<br \/>\nThis step is an agreement and commitment that once a decision is made our team focus shifts to how to make the decision successful. Even if we don&#8217;t quite agree, we will support it.<br \/>\nBefore a decision, we want to hear from everyone fully and with candor.<br \/>\nWe are ready for disagreements and accept that they have value; however, once a decision is made, we have a strong allegiance to our decision-making process.<br \/>\nWe will move forward, leaving behind the need to second guess and express our distress.<br \/>\nThe goal is not harmony.<br \/>\nThe goal is unity.<br \/>\nWe can&#8217;t have success without strong decision making.<br \/>\nWe can&#8217;t have strong decision making without all our efforts pointed to carry them out.<br \/>\nStrong decisions are how we grow and by their results is how we learn.<br \/>\nThe &#8220;decision hot potato game&#8221; puts our future on hold.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s a game we can&#8217;t afford to play.<br \/>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m sure we&#8217;ve all been a player in the &#8220;decision maker hot potato game&#8221;. The basic &#8220;game&#8221; is this: no-one really knows who the final decision maker is or no one really wants to be the final decision maker. 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State clearly the issue to be decided. (Don't skip this step. Often we don't concisely know what the issue is.)<br \/>2. Define or clarify who the decision maker is. (Who's the final word? Who is the person that all advisories and opinions are directed to?)<br \/>3. What happens with decisions that are made?<br \/>For effectiveness, this last step is vital.<br \/>This step is an agreement and commitment that once a decision is made our team focus shifts to how to make the decision successful. Even if we don't quite agree, we will support it.<br \/>Before a decision, we want to hear from everyone fully and with candor.<br \/>We are ready for disagreements and accept that they have value; however, once a decision is made, we have a strong allegiance to our decision-making process.<br \/>We will move forward, leaving behind the need to second guess and express our distress.<br \/>The goal is not harmony.<br \/>The goal is unity.<br \/>We can't have success without strong decision making.<br \/>We can't have strong decision making without all our efforts pointed to carry them out.<br \/>Strong decisions are how we grow and by their results is how we learn.<br \/>The \"decision hot potato game\" puts our future on hold.<br \/>It's a game we can't afford to play.<\/p>","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"project_category":[3],"project_tag":[],"class_list":["post-1365","project","type-project","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","project_category-m2m"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/project\/1365","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/project"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/project"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1365"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/project\/1365\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1368,"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/project\/1365\/revisions\/1368"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1366"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1365"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"project_category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/project_category?post=1365"},{"taxonomy":"project_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/merrimanmanagementsupport.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/project_tag?post=1365"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}